Do you stare at your PC, laptop or Mac wondering how everyone else is finding this business building malarkey so easy?
Are you fed up with seeing everyone else succeed and yet you're still stuck in the same place in your business?
Maybe you're so frustrated with never managing to catch a break your energy, enthusiasm and excitement about the entrepreneurial journey has slowly been seeping away?
Well, it's time you stopped!
Comparing your situation to someone elses is not only a waste of time it actually causes you and your business an unmeasurable amount of harm.
Watch, listen or read on to find out how you can stop getting trapped in comparisonitus and instead quickly move towards the life you desire not one you're terrified to have!
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One of the most damaging things anyone can do when they're trying to build a business is compare themselves to other people.
I like to call this little unhelpful habit 'Comparisonitus' just to try and take the edge off things…
When we start looking outside ourselves and then judge ourselves based on someone else’s reality, someone else’s version of success and someone else’s dreams we can only ever be disappointed with what we see in our own lives.
But this is something we all instinctively do…
It’s something I did in my own life and business for a very, very long time…
Thankfully, it’s not something I do anymore!
Read on to find out how you can give yourself the gift of freedom from Comparisonitus so that you can quickly transform your life and business and finally feel comfortable enough to share your message with the world!
Back when I was just starting my journey, not only was I was forever analysing all the things I was doing wrong. I also became obsessed with following other people in the same space as me who were seemingly getting everything right.
I’d watch the number of likes they’d get, the numbers of followers and all the millions of things they were managing to do and then look at my own day feeling like a complete failure.
While watching others and being inspired by their success can absolutely give you the motivation to dig deep and continue on your journey, even when things get dark...
When you are just watching others and feeling angry, frustrated or useless you are much more likely to head for burnout than brilliance.
The thing is, it’s really, really hard to stop comparing ourselves to others.
We can blame some of this on our genetically wired heritage but most of the time we’ve simply gotten ourselves trapped in the habit.
Regardless of what is going on in our lives there are always multiple different ways at looking at it.
You could stub your toe and think ‘WTF I’m so clumsy… yada, yada, yada…’
...or you could quite as easily think...
ouch … hmmm… while it’s not the reminder I was looking for … I’ll take it!’ (as in a reminder to pay attention to what you’re doing otherwise you’ll get hurt).
You see, the same event and two different perspectives.
Over the past 18 months or so I not only moved from the mental health service and into fully focusing all my time, energy and effort into supporting female entrepreneurs succeed in life and business. I also managed to shift my perspective from one of comparisonitius to being grateful for the reminder that what I want truly is possible.
All those ‘rags to riches’ stories which would have made me feel inadequate now inspire me to keep going.
All the ‘overnight business explosions’ which would have had me completely demotivated now make me sit back and think ‘wow it truly can happen quickly’.
Most importantly, every time someone else succeeds rather than look back at all my mistakes, my failures and the bumps in the road I stop what I’m doing and I take the time to celebrate with them.
Their success lifts me up.
But, this didn’t happen overnight.
Like all the important things in life, this took work!
Thankfully, the ‘work’ is fun and it’s most definitely not hard.
So here’s what you need to do in order to shift out of your perpetual struggle with never measuring up (aka comparisonitus) and into a true state of acceptance, allowing and abundance:
STEP 1: List out all the things you’ve done in the last few weeks, months or years which you are proud of. Make sure this list has little things as well as big things because this is not about becoming trapped in perfectionism…
STEP 2: Take the time to celebrate each and every milestone. You can do this alone, with your friends or even with your family. Just make sure you do it. Oh and in case you’re wondering I tend to do mine with cake #yum
STEP 3: The next time you see someone in your social media feed having the life you want, the business you want and the everything you want take the time to celebrate with them. Much like the toe-stubbing, take this as a gentle reminder but in this case a reminder that everything you want is just around the corner.
If you find yourself struggling to actually build the life and business you deserve then why not head over to the Female Entrepreneur Road Map to Health, Wealth & Happiness Members Club?
Right now, I’m giving lovely lady entrepreneurs the opportunity to join for 10-days for free.
This is super important to me because over in the members club we do things differently…
We’re not about throwing experts at you who give you half the story, pitch you the other half and then disappear before you’ve even figured out what they were trying to teach you.
We’re not about shoving out of date information under your nose.
We’re not about adding to the overwhelm, frustration or emotional upheaval all women in business face.
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Hey, I'm Katie Woodland I'm a Psychologist, Business Coach, Speaker & Best-selling Author who helps determined female entrepreneurs shed imposter syndrome, embrace their authenticity and confidently step into the limelight.
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